Hello again! I sat and thought about this blog and how I might have reacted if I had come across something telling me how to get your ex boyfriend back when I was really down. I think I might have thrown something. At the very least, I probably would have cried.
When you’re really down thinking about how to get him back can be even more depressing than considering the possibilities of where you went wrong. I completely understand this low point. When no one can comfort you and nothing really distracts you from the pain. When my boyfriend, Brian, dumped me at first it didn’t seem real. I felt like the clock was ticking and I had to think of some way of getting my ex back, (he didn’t even seem like an “ex”) very quickly before he forgot about all the good times. It was a horrible panicky feeling.
When it really sank in and I realized he wasn’t going to call and tell me he’d made a big mistake, all I wanted to do was find an excuse to see him. I thought for sure he would realize what he was missing. When a friend was having a get together at her house, I thought it was the perfect opportunity. I dressed up, things I knew he would like. I felt excited for the first time in weeks. I was certain that by the end of the night I would have my ex boyfriend back.
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It didn’t work. He and I barely spoke and I think I just acted like an idiot, he saw right through me.
After that I think I finally began to accept that he didn’t want me and this was the real low point. I’m sharing this because I want you to understand that you are not alone in the feeling, possibly the worst feeling. Who dreams that the focus of their life will become how to get your boyfriend back? It’s very humiliating.
So, what I want you to know is that at some point you have to get your confidence up enough that you are willing to pull yourself out of that dark place before you even consider how to get your ex boyfriend back. It might take time, but eventually you will feel a little better and from there you can think clearly. When I finally found something that could help me and give me the guidance I needed to understand where I had gone wrong, it was only my slight recovery from that horrible feeling that allowed me to use it.
Confidence is everything and if you don’t think you’re worth it, how will he? I know this: the first step to recovery is being okay with who you are and not punishing yourself anymore. Once I was able to move forward without being angry with myself, I was able to focus on whether or not getting back together was even possible. Then and only then was I able to find what I needed.
