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Thanks for Sharing About How You Did Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Saturday, April 3rd, 2010

Hello again to all of you who have succeeded in getting ex boyfriend types to fall at your feet again, or to those who are still looking for a way to achieve this goal. My heart goes out to so many of you, seeing the pain you went through, I know it all too well myself. So many sad stories to read though about how desperately you felt and how difficult it was to come up with any ideas about how to get your ex boyfriend back and make the relationship work this time. I felt like by the time I was done reading I had just talked with a friend.

I wanted to take the time to say thanks to all of you who have let me know just how well this book has worked for you. I appreciate your sending me your stories about how to get back together and why certain things worked for you.

It isn’t easy to share your stories, to reveal where you think you went wrong and to admit that you’re sole focus now is on getting back together with the guy who is possibly the love of your life.

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I guess I wasn’t surprised that so many emails were from women that had found this book, Get Him Back Forever, so useful; but what did surprise me was the warmth and gratitude towards me for sharing my own story. You’re all so very welcome and your praise is more than I deserve, but I thank you for taking the time to let me know.

I know many of you may not have the time to share, but have given me permission to let others know of your success and I thank you so much for that as well. Though there are too many to go into to detail some of your stories are well worth noting simply because they give hope to those women who feel as though they simply haven’t anything to go on.

In Keira’s story I found out that she had been in one of these on-off relationships for years and though she was fairly certain of how to get back together, she didn’t want to continue the same cycle. Reading this book really helped her by allowing her to see why the same mistakes were repeated and how to change the situation. Keira and her boyfriend have now been together for 5 months.

I didn’t get a ton of detail from Lauren, who was kind enough to send the first video response, but she certainly looked happy! In her email she did mention that a friend of hers had sent her a link to my blog which eventually got her reading the book. Thanks to you as well Lauren and congrats on moving in together!

One story that surprised me was Elaine’s, she didn’t get dumped, she actually broke up with him! After a few months she realized that this was a huge mistake on her part, but had no idea how to make your ex want you when you’ve hurt him. She also found what she needed in this book and has been enjoying her newly constructed relationship for 2 ½ months.

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Though I have to say again how much I appreciate all the stories I have been getting and hope very much to see more success, my absolute favorite came from Anna and I have to give a special nod for sharing this:

Unlike me, Anna’s breakup was mutual, apparently her relationship was chalked full of problems and she and her boyfriend just agreed to call it quits. Even though she thought it was for the best, Anna was absolutely miserable without him. After several months went by she realized that she was hands down far more miserable without her ex boyfriend than she was trying to fix their problems. This was when she decided to get him back, but didn’t know how to go about it. Reading about some of the things she tried was both funny and sad as I related to almost all of them. Naturally, most were simply embarrassing when you get right down to it and not at all successful. Anna explained to me that while she was acting on feeling, her ex was far more sensible about the fact that they hadn’t changed as people. That was about the time she found this book and began seeing things differently.

Anna and her boyfriend did get back together and are very happy, but the twist on the story was the real gem. Apparently while Anna was racking her brain trying to figure how to accomplish her goal, her boyfriend was doing the same type of research on his end. The funny things is that even though it seems they were destined to for a second chance the way they made to work was by making some changes in their own behavior. Great story Anna, thanks again and congrats on your 4 months of bliss.

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I have to say a special thanks to Marion, my BFF, because not only was she there for me when I was trying to get my ex boyfriend back, but she encouraged me to write about this when I thought it might not do any good. Oh and btw, Brian thanks you too. Not only for helping me though this time, but also for setting me up on that nightmare date with Allen, hehe.

I would like to thanks all of you who shared again and encourage those of you who are still looking for help to get your ex boyfriend back not to give up. You’re not alone and there are some wonderful tools, like this book, that come from experts that really understand a woman’s point of view. Good luck to all of you and thanks for taking the time to stop by!

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Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back, I Did:3 Month Update

Saturday, March 13th, 2010

Recently a friend of mine got dumped and we spent of weekend just ranting about how evil men can be and why they might just need to be wiped off of the planet. Brian, sweetheart that he was, tried to help out by doing an ice-cream run at like 3 in the morning. By the end of the weekend, my friend was no longer in a man-hating stage and simply wanted to know how to get your ex boyfriend back and make it work.

Of course the first thing I said was, seriously? Um, my blog? But since she was still upset I didn’t hassle her too much about not having any idea that I even had a blog on the subject and just tried to help her out.

I started out by trying to let her know that she might need some time to think before she makes any big moves, but I could see that she was going to be set on trying to win ex boyfriend points somehow. I tried to layout what I had done, what I had changed and so on, but eventually I just told her she probably should just read Get Him Back Forever because I think I was just confusing her.

I was a little worried about it. Not all relationships are meant to be after all. After a couple of weeks though it was pretty obvious that she was dead set on getting back together with her ex and all I could really do was try to be supportive. The heart wants what the heart wants and her dedication was there, she even read my blog.

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It didn’t take her long to breeze through the book and begin applying the methods to her strategy. We did do some shopping too, which I believe always helps a girl feel a bit more positive. Especially when you find that one, perfect dress that you know will make your ex want you so bad he can’t stand it. Yea, that always helps.

Though she didn’t go about it in exactly the same way, the applications from the book were sound and the guy she had her sights on DID come back asking for a second chance. So now I have been able to witness firsthand how even two completely different types of women and relationships can be helped using this advice. This naturally made me want to write about it and after some heavy persuading and promise not to use any names, she agreed. Thanks honey.

As for my own relationship, things are still going strong. Not only did I learn how to get back together, but how to keep things going well, hopefully forever. Every day I try to remember how absolutely miserable I was when Brian and I were apart so that I can be grateful for what we have now. I did find out he was in a pretty bad state too, which I guess made me feel a little better.

After reading this book and having it work and now being several months into what I feel is a good relationship, I have had some time to think about why it works so well. I think it really is because too often we resist meeting people half way and changing the parts of ourselves and our behavior that simply do not mix well with others.

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I don’t like playing games, but there are times when it’s not so much about trickery as knowing how to cue the right response, the one you’re hoping to get and failed at reaching before. I look back over these last several months (over a year) and I can’t believe the rollercoaster ride I’ve been on and the changes I’ve made in my life.

I still don’t believe that finding love solves everything or that anyone’s life depends upon getting their ex back or finding that one special person; but I do believe that my life is so much improved by Brian being in it that all that pain I endured makes sense. When you find the right person you want to spend your life with it doesn’t mean that you can’t live without them, it just means that your life may not be the very best it could be when they’re not in it.

I didn’t give up and I’m really happy. I hope that those of you who lost that wonderful guy and are trying to find a way to get your ex boyfriend back don’t give up either. Thanks for stopping by and all the luck and strength in the world to you.

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Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back – My Story

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

I went out to lunch with a friend of mine who just got dumped. It was so awful because I know all too well what she is going through. That horrible aftermath, where your entire outlook on life turns gray and all you can think about is how to get your ex boyfriend back. Your self esteem takes a huge hit and you can’t seem to keep it out of your mind.

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I know I personally spent what seemed like a year on my couch in grungy sweats, hoping like crazy my ex would call. Can you guess why he finally did? Yea, he was missing a T-shirt and wanted to know if I had it. I think that might have been the real low point.

I did eventually get up off the couch because I still had to work and eat and so forth. It was then that I started taking my friend’s advice about getting back into the game. I admit I spent most of the time thinking about how to get him back. None of the guys I met seemed at all right, though who can tell when you’re focus is only on getting back together?

I tried the dating new guys thing. I tried the focusing on work thing. I tried some really stupid hobbies that only made me feel even less likely to ever find love again. Come on now, organic basket weaving? Eventually I gave up on just getting over it and just decided I had to accept that I felt this way. I admit I even called him once and hung up just to hear his voice, sad right?

Once I cleared my head and just tried to keep the spotlight on getting my life back I began looking at ways I might have gone wrong to begin with. I read some very generic material that didn’t help me much and some very specific stuff that was so confusing it didn’t even seem to make sense. Nothing I read really gave me much help on how to get your ex back.

Then one day I came across this book, Get Him Back Forever. The word forever really got me, because that is exactly what I wanted. I didn’t have high hopes. I mean I had already tried some things that failed so why would this work? I was quickly surprised by how well the author seemed to understand what I was feeling and even better, could point out exactly where I had gone wrong before.

I was scared off a bit by some of the ideas, I didn’t want to trick Brian into loving me, but I started to see it isn’t about tricks so much as confidence. It was also nice to get this from a male perspective so I could see how my actions might have been coming across and why this might have led to my being ditched. I began to see how the author really made it possible for you to get your ex back by simply following the male way of thinking.

Now I am back with Brian and happier than ever. It didn’t take long for him to see the new and improved me was something to desire. This book really helped me to find my direction. I explained all of this to my friend and I am sharing this with you now in the hopes that you too will be able to get your ex boyfriend back and be together forever.

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